In a time dominated by screens, it’s easy to find ourselves and kids glued to devices, scrolling through endless feeds, and losing track of time. An hour of scrolling can go by in a flash. Those hours add up, day after day, week after week. Quite literally, we’re losing our precious lives to Instagram reels and TikTok videos. The repercussions of tech addiction are real, affecting our mental well-being, relationships, and overall quality of life. Here at Tech Addiction Experts, we realize that cutting technology out of your life isn’t realistic. Instead, our aim is to empower you and your family to use technology intentionally and healthily, to benefit your life. Below you’ll find tips to start your journey towards a healthier relationship with technology.
Rediscover the Joy of Real Connections
As a therapist, the very top thing I talk about in EVERY single therapy session is “connection.” Connection back to ourselves. Connection to family & friends. Connection to our community. While these connections are absolutely vital for a happy and fulfilling life, they require more effort to achieve. Our screens have become too easy to get sucked into. Researchers have found that friends enjoy being reached out to more than we think (learn more here), so prioritize reaching out with a call or direct message. Don’t underestimate the power of real connections, especially within families and among teens. Building strong bonds with loved ones can significantly enhance mental well-being and create a supportive network during challenging times. So, make an effort to engage in meaningful conversations, spend quality time together, and nurture the relationships that truly matter.
Reclaim Your Productivity
Technology should empower, not hinder. Unfortunately, the internet is set up in a way that makes people money when they get our attention & time. When we get lost in our scrolling, we’re losing valuable time in our lives. Technology can be used to give us more time if we use it correctly. One way to use your devices more intentionally is to set boundaries for yourself and your family. Some boundaries may include not using devices while eating, only using certain apps on your laptop instead of phone or establishing tech free time throughout your day or week. Things as simple as deleting apps that you have the hardest time being intentional about helps create an obstacle that can reduce the appeal of your device.
For families and teens, setting boundaries around technology use is crucial for reclaiming productivity and fostering healthier relationships with screens. Encourage open discussions about the impact of technology on daily life and work together to establish guidelines that promote balance and mindfulness. Consider implementing family tech-free zones or designated screen-free hours to prioritize quality time spent together and encourage more meaningful interactions. By setting clear boundaries and modeling positive tech habits, families and teens can regain control over their digital devices and create space for productivity, creativity, and genuine connections.
Prioritize Your Mental Well-being
Make your mental well being a priority. It’s much easier to break free of our screens when we are feeling happier and more fulfilled in life. Start by taking a hard look at your mental health and start to prioritize self care. It’s important to focus on making sure our real life is more pleasurable than the next Instagram Reel or TikTok. You may realize that you need to reestablish a support group or maintain a healthier lifestyle.
For teens and families, fostering open conversations about mental health is crucial. Encourage teens to express their emotions and concerns, and validate their experiences without judgment. Create a supportive environment where teens feel comfortable seeking help from trusted adults or mental health professionals when needed. As a family, prioritize activities that promote mental well-being, such as spending quality time together, engaging in physical activity, and practicing mindfulness techniques.
Don’t hesitate to seek professional help from a therapist, counselor, or mental health professional if you or your teen are struggling. Therapy can provide you with coping strategies, support, and guidance to navigate challenges and improve your mental well-being. Additionally, breaking the stigma of seeking professional help is crucial. Embracing professional help is a proactive step towards achieving holistic wellness and breaking the barriers surrounding mental health care.
Build a Balanced Digital Lifestyle
Perfect balance isn’t the goal, intention is. If you’re feeling off track, you’re not alone. What matters most is paying attention and taking the next small step toward a healthier relationship with technology. Whether you’re trying to set limits, reconnect with your teen, or just be more present in your own life, every mindful choice counts.
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About the Author-
Chris Koniarczyk is a licensed therapist, dad of two, and the founder of Tech Addiction Experts, a platform he created in 2022 to help families better understand and manage the growing challenges of technology use in kids and teens. He holds a master’s degree in Counseling Psychology and Counselor Education from the University of Colorado Denver and is a Licensed Addictions Counselor and Licensed Professional Counselor in Colorado, as well as a Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor in North Carolina.
Chris is also the owner of Christopher John Counseling, a private therapy practice in Winston-Salem, NC, where he specializes in working with teens, families, couples, and individuals struggling with addiction. As both a professional and a parent, Chris is passionate about helping families set healthy boundaries around tech. When he’s not counseling or creating digital safety resources, you can find him spending time with his wife and two kids, enjoying live music, or cheering on the Buffalo Bills.